#Dear Future Husband

[ered]

Hey you

[halfwayriight]

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[creatingnikki]

Dear the love of my life,

Once again I attempt writing to you. But this time with a more grown up and different perspective. And yet with all this perspective, the words are harder to come out now. Everything feels too much, a lot of it hopeless, a lot of it doomed. But with the little hope and faith I find, I write this to you. To you who I know is out there. To you who is figuring his life out.

Where are you now? Bangalore? London? Mumbai? Toronto? Badlapur? New Mexico? Seoul? Delhi, perhaps? Wherever you are, I send you the kind of energy you need the most right now. As of 23rd August, 2022, my love, what is it that you need? Is it the warmth of someone's sincerity? Is it a miracle to fix a very sticky situation at work or home? Is it strength that your body needs? Is it strength that your mind needs? A good, comfort meal? Peace? Whatever it is, I ask the universe to send it to you — kindly, timely, consistently, and abundantly.

The person I am right now is seeking something so intensely to a point that I have started to stray away from my values and beliefs. To a point that I have started to treat breadcrumbs like a gracious feast prepared specially for me. But if I love bread so much and there are supply chain issues, shouldn't I be strategic and figure out ways to fix them? Quarter by quarter but fix them? That starts now.

As I sit in Third Wave Café sipping on a very milky, very sweet iced coffee with a flower bouquet I curated for my friend who is sitting across me writing a letter to his to-be fiancé, as I feel cold due to the air conditioner for the first time in Bangalore, as I think about everything that's happened in the last five months, I now know this.

This is not the life I want. This is not the life I am going to continue to let myself live. From now on I am going to make decisions that protect me, that provide me with the best, that bring me peace, and that give me power. For I am going to bloom into the person that has always been inside me, waiting politely for me to recognize how precious I am. And I truly hope that you too are able to make the decisions that honor the divine in you and pacify the undivine.

We will meet. We have met. We exist. Soon. Always. Other than this, I have no declarations of love to make. I have no expectations to articulate. We will build and we will nurture and we will love exactly how it is precious to us. And we will laugh and laugh and laugh.

Love,

Nikki

[otakusheep15]

The three genders

[trushe-and-poetry]

[sea-owl]

Heard Dear Future Husband for the first time in a while and thought of this cute scenario.

So, Anthony, Benedict, and Colin are at a party or the club, having fun, drinking, dancing, and flirting. Well this song comes on and they get pulled into a dance with Kate, Sophie, and Penelope, who are there with Simon, Michael, and Phillip but their guys friends either went missing or took a break and are back at their table. The girls are a little tipsy, singing along to the song, and dancing with the three hot strangers they randomly plucked from the dance floor.

When the song ends the girls thank the boys for the dance, giggle, and run off into the crowd back to their table. Cue the brothers looking for them all around the club for the rest of the night.

[sweetiepotatofry]

Whoever i marry, beware, for if thous last name is way, our daughter will be named after an icon.

[sage-green-kitchen]

My future significant other will have to love me enough to deal with the willow tree I will want to plant. Yes, they are a pain, but they are aesthetic af.

[yinwaryuri]

Oh boy, Be My Favorite fans get ready to scream

I got @seanwhites to start catching up on the show and this happened:

For reference, it's this scene in Episode 1 3/4 (about 6:20 for the timestamp):

This is her song:

This is the soundtrack:

Idk if the music director knew what they were doing or if this is just a coincidence but I am laughing my ass off!

Someone make this edit stat

[ered]

Hey, did you know, my fantasy romance novel Dear (future) Husband is now 50% off at Smashwords summer sale??????!!!!!

[tradfem-princess]

Want I want in my future husband:

Christian

Must like cats

WIPE THE SEAT AFTER YOU PEE

Above 5'2

20-26 years old (updates every year I get older)

My dad must like him

If he likes Andrew Tate we aren't gonna date.

Willing to wear matching autumn themed plaid clothes

He knows how to swim

He must be willing to shave his armpits. Armpit hair grosses me out.

Must know how to drive cuz I cannot

Understands that mental health is not caused by being possessed by demons.

Willing to understand my boundaries with sex/ptsd/autism/dogs and whatever future boundaries I have

Understand that we will have a kitten (or a few) before kids.

No sex until marriage but kissing is welcome. And cuddles.

Add more later

[creatingnikki]

I am going to let you guide my behaviour. You who I haven't yet met. You who I know I will meet. My future love, my future partner. I know I should improve first and foremost for myself. I know I should heal for me. I know I should take these decisions that are right for myself. But is it so bad if my motivation is us? The life we will build together. The people we will be to each other. The way we will love each other. Is it so bad if I gather strength from the idea of us? And let that help me do what I need to do now? You will be someone I will love, yes, but also respect and cherish, and I will be someone you love, respect, and cherish. So the things I do now, the choices I make, have to be those that I can be proud of sharing with you. And breaking my own heart, letting others break it, or breaking that of someone else will not be choices I will be proud to share with you. I don't want you to look at me like you don't think I'm the absolute best. So I will do better. No matter how hard it is now, I will do better. For us.

[allforhavoc]

the constant battle between wanting princess treatment and feeling guilty when someone treats you like one

[hit-the-dirt-and-get-back-on]

The dream is to meet a man who wants me for more than just my body. Who goes out of his way not to hurt me.

We will get married. It will be a small wedding, but a wedding none the less complete with white dress and tux.

A few years later, we buy a small piece of land big enough for a house, a barn, a couple of horses, a couple and a couple dogs.

Another year or so, and we add to our family. Maybe buy a little more land.

The dream is to be in love. The dance in the kitchen, wear his clothes, can't get enough if eachother type love.

That is my dream. The only thing is, I feel like all it will ever be is just that... a dream.

[becomingher-era]

Dear future husband… dear future bae ❤️ I'm patiently waiting.

[madsrandomfandomfixations]

Is it just me or does anyone else love the trope where the guy is loopy, high, drunk, or just plain out of it and they are either

A. angry when their girl touches them and they're like "DONT touch me i have a wife/fiance/girlfriend"

B. Crying because they can't find their girl and think they left them or think they're not good enough or deserving of them

OR

C. Crying and/or telling people how much they love their girl and want to be with them or the rest of their lives

If my future husband/ boyfriend isn't like this, I won't be mad just disappointed because, I mean how cute is that, to know that even when their not in their right mind they love you so much and know it in their whole being and it's just so wholesome.